The other way around, bending reality
Food for thoughts...
There are the people who look at what is available on the market and make themselves fit.
There are the ones who do not bother looking, and do whatever they gotta do, never feeling short or inadequate.
“I learned this, at least, by my experiment: that if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” ― Henry David Thoreau, Walden: Or, Life in the Woods
"When Einstein wrote his general theory of relativity in 1915, he found a new way to describe gravity. It was not a force, as Sir Isaac Newton had supposed, but a consequence of the distortion of space and time, conceived together in his theory as 'space-time'.
Any object distorts the fabric of space-time and the bigger it is, the greater the effect. Just as a bowling ball placed on a trampoline stretches the fabric and causes it to sag, so planets and stars warp space-time - a phenomenon known as the 'geodetic effect'.
A marble moving along the trampoline will be drawn inexorably towards the ball. Thus the planets orbiting the Sun are not being pulled by the Sun; they are following the curved space-time deformation caused by the Sun. The reason the planets never fall into the Sun is because of the speed at which they are traveling.
According to the theory, matter and energy distort space-time, curving it around themselves. 'Frame dragging' theoretically occurs when the rotation of a large body 'twists' nearby space and time." - The Guardian Weekly, 2007
Your thoughts are energy, this energy represents your perception of reality, imagine how it can, even slightly, contribute to the shape of your manifested truth.
This is ours to discover and practice, through intention and conscious thinking, for life is worth the time we invest in it.
There is no justice, or right or wrong, just stronger or weaker energies and, therefore, manifested realities.